Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Best Christian Book for Explaining Sex To A Child?

I have a daughter that will be 8 this Summer.I think it's time she learn about the facts of life.We're Christian and we prefer a Christian based book but I have no idea what to use.I don't need a book that just explains sex I need one that explains how the changes a girl goes through also.Does anyone have any suggestions?Best Christian Book for Explaining Sex To A Child?
books are useless they need to learn those things from mom and dad not a book
You can't use a book to explain something so important. You should try taking some time to explain it in your own words and then talk to her about it. Depending on where you live she may already know about. Also, if it comes from you it will be a lot more important than some book. But make sure your daughter and you are relaxed. Make her feel like she can tell you anything by sharing something but don't freak her out... the idea of boy's may be a little weird to her still. If you manage to have her tell you everything about herself, then you can be safe she always will as long as you don't scare her by saying I'll be disappointed if you do anything. But aways talk about safety of condoms and birth control. And in a couple of years, when she gets a boyfriend don't nag her about kissing and stuff and if you think their relationship is going to far or you have reason to believe, introduce the pill. Or tell her its for pimples. Even if your a christain family, stuff happens.Best Christian Book for Explaining Sex To A Child?
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A quick search has led me to that there is a whole market for these books. What matters is that YOU take your responsibility like you seem doing and are willing to teach.



The problem with the "christian" book approach is that ..well most christian books are horribly wrong or outdated. I rather have it that you expose her to a more modern approach that does talks about all the possible problems and the likes and that boys sometimes lie to get something. Because if you don't tell it her who will? The more modern books will certainly. It is you who have to give it a christian twist, with that I hope you mean that you teach her to be more carefull.



Please teach her about condoms and the pill this is what is so wrong in many "christian" approaches that they don't talk about these issues. I mean "christian" sex education is all about Abstinence, lets be fair teenagers and not being run by their hormones?



I see you are willing to teach I hope you are willing to teach about the reality and no the facade that christianity tries to make it. Teach her well arm her with information that is right. Allow her to make her own choices but ensure they are educated choices.



May your path be blessed
If you're Christian, than just use the good 'ol bible. I'm sure its views on sex are up to date and exactly the way you want your daughter percieving sex. Make sure you warn her about the "stoning" and the whole "going to hell" thing....Best Christian Book for Explaining Sex To A Child?
you yourself and your husband should be the ones that Field those questions and any curiosities. she will not be able to understand a book, she will still go to you with questions, you might as well sit down and talk with her about these things.
If I were you, I'd just tell her. As for Christianity, keep it out of it unless the girl's a willing Christian.
No, sorry.

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